Though men bear the brunt of most cheating accusations, the truth is that the of women who have reported being unfaithful has increased by 40 percent sinceaccording to Esther Perela psychoanalyst and author of The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. Yes, women are just as guilty of cheating—but unlike their male counterparts, they're so good at maintaining a double-life that often times it's almost impossible to tell an adulterous wife and a faithful one apart.
Of course, if your partner comes home late at night reeking of another person's ature scent, it seems pretty obvious that something is amiss. But often, the s of cheating are far more subtle. Whether you have a fleeting concern about new behaviors or are seriously worried that your spouse could be having an affair, experts advise these als you should watch out for. The issue arises if this is suddenly a new thing for your partner. Again, a change in behavior is key here.
The way they respond can be telling. By now, you two should be pretty comfortable chatting. But when your cohort is hiding something, look for unusual and often unconscious habits, suggests body language expert Lillian GlassPh. If their perfect posture has suddenly given way, that could be a red flag.
This could mean a hairstyle changea recent fixation with the gym, or a splurge on new clothing. You asked how the office party was.
They rattled off the entire guest list, all the hors d'oeuvres that were served and whenand a minute-by-minute play of what went down. Cheaters will often create long tales about strange stories and places they have been that day to act as an alibi. If they used to obsessed with racking up rewards points and have now switched to paper, it's worth asking about.
Of course, there could always be a simple explanation for a switch in your partner's demeanor that has little to do with cheating. But if these actions feel familiar, and you have no idea why, it's time to ask the tough questions.
Either way, you have a right to know. Your Best Life.
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