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So you love a guy with low self-esteem. Sucks to be you.
When you think of someone with low self-esteem, perhaps you imagine a person who is shy and struggles to contribute to conversation.
However, low self-esteem is not as obvious as these examples and how it affects the individual and their life can be very unique. Low self-esteem especially affects relationships, and can cause arguments, insecurity, imbalance and other types of relationship difficulties.
Here are some examples of how low self-esteem can affect your relationships:.
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Not putting forward your needs. If you have low self-esteem you may find it difficult to ask others for help. For example, someone with low self-esteem may organise removalists to help them move homes; well before thinking to ask a friend to help. This means an individual with low self-esteem may not get their needs fulfilled in their relationships, as they feel too afraid to ask.
People with low self-esteem may take feedback or simple requests personally. Your hurt may cause you to recoil or snap at your partner, and an argument may boil over. While your low self-esteem clearly affects your relationship, your relationship also affects your self-esteem, as you may regret your irrational reactions. Jealousy and insecurity. Low self-esteem can give rise to jealousy and insecurity in a relationship.
If you can’t see your own worth, how can you believe a partner will?
You may question your worthiness to your partner, and believe it is a fluke they like you. As such, it is normal for people with low self-esteem to expect their partner may be attracted to someone else or fear they will leave the relationship.
Difficulty being yourself. Low self-esteem can make it difficult to be your authentic self in a relationship.
You may put considerable effort into being likeable or attractive. For example, you may work hard at entertaining others or to be interesting. Or, perhaps you always try to look your best.
Poor relationship choice. Low self-esteem can affect your choice in a partner or friend.
Low self-esteem means you are more likely to ignore your core needs in a relationship. For example, you may stay with your partner, despite their lack of affection for you.
S you have low self-esteem in a relationship
There are a of practical things you can do to improve your self-esteem in your relationships. For example, you can start by addressing your needs. Maybe you would like more affection from your partner?
Or, perhaps you would like your partner to see your family more often? It may feel overwhelming to put forward all your needs out there at once, so it is best to start small, with things that do not feel too challenging. For example, you may ask your partner for a hug, or invite your partner to a small gathering with just your sister or mum.
Psychologists are trained in therapies that are deed to improve self-esteem. A psychologist can help you change the way you think about yourself, which in turn should improve sensitivity and insecurity in your relationships. We are warm and empathic psychologists based in Melbourne, who are experienced and trained in helping individuals improve their self-esteem and relationships.
Low self-esteem affects personal relationships
If you would like some professional assistance at Peaceful Mind Psychology. Here are some examples of how low self-esteem can affect your relationships: Not putting forward your needs. How can Peaceful Mind Psychology help?