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This article was written by Bo Alexis and provided by our partners at YourTango. Happy-ending massage stories are pretty common, a mixture of truth, half-truth, and urban legend that captivates the imagination of men, even in this age of casual sex and unlimited Internet porn. Most of these stories are about women providing such services to men as the high point of a massage. These women average more than million visits per year, so it's not surprising that juicy tales of women receiving happy-ending massages are increasing. The truth of the matter is far more women receive erotic or sensual massages than the public is aware of. Some women present themselves as "ripe and ready" for an explicitly erotic experience by indicating their desire through body language and other thinly veiled alluring behaviors.
If you want to give a woman the night of her life and turn her into a blissed-out puddle of mush that will be talking to her friends about you for weeks afterwardthen look no further than the sensual massage. Everybody likes sex, but the dynamic of a sensual massage is something entirely different. Most women tend to be sensitive to ambience and context.
In order for her to be able to completely relax internally, the outer environment has to be conducive to her relaxation. Coconut oil is my personal favourite. Put a few tablespoons in a dish on the bedside table.
Bonus points if you add a few drops of essential oil to create your own custom infusion. If the oil is room temperature or less, rub your hands together vigorously for seconds before putting them on her skin.
You want everything to be comfortable and soothing. The last thing you want is her to dread your touch and wince, or get cold. Sensuality is about provoking, stimulating, and teasing the senses. Your goal is to bring every ounce of her attention to her body and where your hands contact it. Be progressive with pressure and intensity.
The more light and drawn out the movements, the more arousing the sensual massage will be. Start with long, smooth full-palm strokes up her back and down her arms.
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Use the swirl technique to keep her nerve endings guessing swirling your hands around lightly in an unpredictable, non-linear way over the whole body. When you find a tight place, spend some time making repetitive, deeper movements over it. Choose one spot and then slowly sink into it with a few firm fingers or a gentle elbow. Be very careful with this technique. Because it can be insanely satisfying and tension-busting, but also intense and painful.
Check in once in a while if the pressure is okay. Ask her if there are any areas that are calling out to her and yearning for more attention. Remember that the arc of the sensual massage is a giant tease from initial feather-light touch on the back to full manual stimulation of her lady parts.
You want to build tension and anticipation. Start with the head, neck, arms, hands, legs, butt, and feet. Then have her flip over and go further with her stomach, breasts, inner thighs, and finally genitals. When you get to the vagina, work from the outside in, layer by layer. Stroke and gently tug at each labial lip. Caress everything. Take your time. When you move to the inside, use the same philosophy of light, smooth touch and particularly focus on the G-spot, along the first few inches of the upper vaginal wall. Watch her breath and calibrate as you gradually build speed and intensity.
Sometimes it can be a nice touch to keep sex entirely off the table. Making the whole experience just about her keeps this container of honouring and service more fully in tact, which will tend to make her feel extra special. Above all, remember to take your time and tease. If it helps, keep a clock or your phone within view and draw the whole process out over an hour, at least.
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