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- I'm 50 years old
When it comes to dating, texting can be your best friend, or your worse enemy. But to expect a text that never comes can be a legit nightmare. It seems odd that, these days, anyone would be bad at texting, but it happens. I have personally met a few people who hate texting. Some people are capable of turning off their phones, or ignoring them for hours as they concentrate and get work done.
For the past month I haven't gone a single day without hearing from this guy. Now it's been 2 days. Be always text me first, could he be trying to see if I'll contact him if he doesn't contact me? Do men even think that way?
Personally I dont think my boyfriend would do that But I would, if I called my guy every day, i would put him to the test to see if I got the same courtesy. Give him a little credit, and think of it as a test, and maybe call him first for once. I absolutely believe he could be testing you, To see if it's a one way street or a two way street.
IF he is always the one initiating the contact then yes, possibly he could be busy or doesn't want to look to desperate. Please keep in mind that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Patience is of virtue, everything comes down to having patience, as hard as that is.
Trust me especially when it's dealing with your heart strings. There is always that chance that the luster has worn off? In order for a healthy long lasting relationship there has to be a certain amount of game that is involved, forever in order to keep things fresh, lively, vibrant. The problem with people who have been in relationships for long periods of time is they get comfortable.
Will he come back around if he pulls away?
YOu still have to do the small things no matter what to keep it interesting. NOt that you have to play games but play the game. Do things you ordinarily wouldn't do. Us men are smarter than you think, and yes, we do test you from time to time in ways you may not even be aware of even when they are happening to you.
You test us, and don't say you don't so why not? If it's important to you that he be thinking of you, then don't you think it's just as important to him? By always waiting for him to initiate contact you give the impression that you aren't really interested and that you only see him when you have nothing better to do. By contacting him first it shows that you think enough of him to plan your day around him and not him around your day, if that makes any sense to you. It shows you have time for him. He has already shown that he takes time out of his day for you by calling you first, don't you think it's time you did the same for him?
I wouldn't fret over this. He could be busy.
He’s legit bad at texting
If these games start happening more often, give it a second thought as to why he acts the way he does. Dear Ya men do think that way. As females why we forget that men too have hearts. He is contacting you everyday so you have taken him for granted. He is checking if you are going to miss him,if really you need him.
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Just give him a call and you will be fine. The guy i have been dating now the past 7 weeks just tested me today! He confirmed he was testing me. Since Aug 30th he has,been texting me a Good Morning text. Today nothing. I texted him.
Is everything ok? Is your phine working? He replied he was testing me to see if i would greet him. SO YES! Men do test. Personally i dont like to be tested.
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We get along great and frankly i was surprised about it. I thought men are suppose to be simple lol. I feel you. I hurt him and now. He doesn't text me when im not texting him first.
And how to get over anxiously waiting by the phone.
Help a sisterbeen dating for 5 months. Now we were fine then the next thing He me on blocked on WhatsApp and not taking my calls. Do you have any idea what could be going on? Was he lying about fruitful relationship? R elationship T alk. Could he be testing me?
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