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So, you are married but you have a crush on someone else. Hey, it happens. Married people, even happily married people, are also human and as such, are vulnerable to developing crushes on attractive others. Having a crush on someone else when you're married doesn't mean that you're a bad person. It also is not a reflection of your marriage.


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First off, let me just say congrats on finding a great guy and making it work for 3 years! Let me start by asking why you might feel like you are missing out on something. Are some of your friends entering new relationships?

In these cases, if you still are truly in love with your boyfriend and enjoy being with him, I urge you to maybe try spicing up your relationship before cutting things off with a guy you think is great. If you genuinely think that you may be happier with another person or that your current relationship is no longer making you happy, then I would consider talking to your boyfriend and voicing the fact that you are interested in seeing other people.

No matter what you choose to do, I think the first step should be to analyze why you might want to see other people and then take it from there. Good luck, Simran.

Relationships might very well be one of the most complicated things to deal with in life. They can be absolutely amazing, but every relationship experiences hard times.

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It is definitely normal to feel like you want something new and exciting. First, have you sat down and really thought about your relationship with your boyfriend? What does this relationship mean to you? How much does he mean to you? Also, it would be helpful to question what happens after meeting someone new?

What to do when you are married and have a crush on someone else

Focus on what, or rather who, you have now and really ponder on whether or not the relationship is worth letting go. If you feel unhappy and want to explore the open ocean, then do as you please! Give yourself some alone time to think about this; weight out the pros and cons. These are just some questions that you can ask yourself before deciding on anything.


I wish you the best of luck. In my experience, most bumps in a relationship can be successfully worked out through opening up a dialogue. By approaching the conversation in this way, you can also give him the space to state any concerns he may be having as well.

A relationship model is different for everyone. If, for whatever reason, the idea of an open relationship is appealing to you, check out those resources I linked. You are here Home I'm in a relationship, but I'm interested in seeing other people.

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Vini Hi there! Good luck, Simran Hi there!

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