Your guy friend has started to act differently toward you lately. Is he into you?
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Things he says
I updated my question. Could you read it please and say something about it? If you were him would you be dissapointed to me bcoz i just said "shut up"? That being said me personally I wouldn't joke around like that unless I wanted to date you or I knew that you wouldn't be bothered by it.
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If you're feeling it and think you would like to give you two a try you could always ask him if he was serious. Send him a message and be like: "So last night you called me girlfriend material and it made me start thinking about things.
Where you serious when you said that? If I was him and it was my shy way of asking you out I would be a little disappointed because I would take it has a rejection. But nothing a message to him couldn't fix if you are really interested. If you were him would you think I don't have any interest in you bcoz all I said is "shut up"? Maybe, depending on how you said it.
Was it a 'stop teasing me' shut up or a 'get lost' kind of shut up? If the first and he backed off then he was probably just fooling around without trying to drop a hint. If the second there was missed communication and he thinks he got the answer he didn't want. I get the impression that you are interested in him. You don't actually have to say anything to let him know that you are receptive just use the usual non-verbal flirts - nice smiles, long friendly glances, little touches on his arm. All that kind of thing.
S he’s pretending not to like you (but really does)
Could you read it please. And say something about it. Eh, if i really liked you.
Although this feels like young people interaction so it's hard to say. If he does like you, he's doing some sort of passive way to go about it and i would just brush things off until he grows ballz to make moves directly. This is to me a coin flip that you shouldn't look into.
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Could you read it please and say something about it. If you were him would you be dissapointed to my reaction? Ithe would depend on how you said shut and what your facial expression was if you said it with a cute smile and said it olfully the it's what he was looking for if you just said shut up with an irate tone the he was disappointed.
But mainly your body language would've said it all. All I said to him was "shut up". If you we're him would you be dissapointed? I think he wants more than friends butt he is scared to kill your friendship. Could you please read it and tell me something about it? If you were him would you be dissapointed to me? Keep in mind that there were other friends there too so he probably wouldn't be blunt and open about it.
It depends on if you're interested. If you are then you could have casually said "I would probably date you too.
What does it mean if a guy jokes about dating you
If you're not interested then I don't know, carry on as usual I suppose. Quit being shy and just straight up ask him.
Something like "So were you joking or serious? Also, would you mind to help me in my question? Guy's Behavior. He said it while we were eating together with other friends. He didn't directly said it to me though he was just next to me. This is what he said "You know what guys, Kaye was totally cool back there. She is not reacting too much. She is like a girlfriend material. I would probably date her. And I wasn't vey mindful that time because im concentrating to the food.
All i said to him is "shut up". Share Facebook. Everyone, what does it mean when a guy jokes about dating you? Add Opinion. It's a tactic that the internet teaches him to test the waters to see how you would respond if he asked you out so he doesn't feel rejected too much. When he "joked" he probably was asking you out and if you said no or it wouldn't work he was trying to save fact by saying it was a joke.
Source: I came across many articles that gave tips for shy guys to ask out your friend without risking a friendship. Show All Show Less. Up Now! Related Questions. Show All. What the fuck does it mean if a guy has a girlfriend but constantly tells you that he loves you, and Make jokes about you two dating? What does it mean when a guy give you a tight hug?
What does it mean when a guy says "yum" about you? Does he want to move from just being friends to something sexual? Do I need to make the first move? Sort Girls First Guys First. KeiranByrne Xper 6. It means he wants to ask you out and is looking for a bit of encouragement. Or a clear indication that you' not interested. That-Guy opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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He just trying to see your reaction and see how you would feel about dating him and if there is a chance that it could happen. Oh yes. Thank you. He probably wants you Butt wants either a from you that you feel the same way Or is still waiting for a real good moment.
Things he might do
Possibly testing the waters, although so many people has assumed that I'm dating my good female friend whom I have no feelings for at this point that I've done this too and not meant it. ChromAzonyx opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. He may want to date you but is afraid you'll say no. Thank you! No doors were closed. ParamountArmada Xper 6. He is probably sounding you out to find out if you are interested in him! He may be giving you hints he likes you really hard to say. He has a planand you are in his plan.
Be ready. He will ask you on a date someday. When you told him "shut up" he probably thought "well, I threw that thought out there and it got shot down. So much for that".
1. he starts inviting you to hang more than usual.
Pac-Man Yoda. There's truth behind every "jk". Maybe a hint, maybe a joke. Ask him and see. Would you mind giving me tips on how to do that? Thanorlin Xper 3. He probably likes you and was testing the waters to see what you thought of him. He likes you but he is afraid to let you know or ask you out.