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Last year I affirmed that dating is just fine. A date starts with asking someone out on a date. And what are some great first date ideas?
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If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? us! Elijah19 Senior Member Jan 31, May 15, 7 0. Asking a girl out can be a delicate process for a guy, because it takes both the guts and toughness to walk up to it, as well as the sensitive heart to open your emotions to somebody else.
It can equally be a delicate process for a girl, I imagine, because it will be both flattering and a little startling.
I have asked a lot of girls out on dates in my time, and some have said yes while others rejected. I've learned to accept both answers understanding.
But what I want to know is this: What is the most polite and appropriate way to ask a girl out? Sometimes I'll ask and my friends of both genders will say that I "came on too strong" and other times they will say I "came on too weak".
It's weird because this is a delicate balance. If I try to be polite, they say I come across too weak, but if I try to be be rugged and manly, they say I come across too strong. And to top it all off, if I try to just be myself and be honest, they tell me I come across as "Creepy" which really hurts my ego.
So where's the happy median? Ladies, I'm asking you primarily. Thanks and God bless you. JonahLynx Senior Member Jan 31, Dec 28, 1, 28 Last edited: Jan 31, Jun 30, 15 0. I can't give you a direct answer on this and I hate to keep you 'guessing' but all I can say is this, as long as you are genuine, honest and nice it doesn't matter how you approach and ask her. It also all depends on the girl. Some girls like when a guy is 'too strong' manly or when he is 'too weak' sensitive.
And even if you are not intentionally trying to be creepy someone could see it that way. If you are going to ask a girl out you probably already know at least some things about her.
Her personality and behavior, how you should approach her and what her possible answer could be. If you do not know this girl and you want to know her, just start conversation.
Simple, clean conversation. It can be nerve wrecking and awkward especially when you think how if you are doing well enough or not but all you can do is offer to spend time together the best way you can in that moment. Being genuine, honest and nice. MadParrotWoman Guest Jan 31, I would say keep it casual. Kinda like JonahLynx put it.
TrueColors Banned Jan 31, Jan 31, 29 1 0. For me. I have never asked a girl out.
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Anywhere I have with her is a fun play to be and just talk and be silly. Never asked a girl out never will and my wife I didn't even asked her out. We just chatted and have fun and decided to go alittle bit further.
You don't have to worry about being nervous to ask her out. Mar 13, 34, 12, 66 Tennessee. I feel very relaxed with my wife and before we were married as well. Neither one of us were nervous with each other. Yes, it is indeed fun. JesusLives Senior Member Jan 31, Oct 11, 14, 1, Please just be yourself when you ask a girl out. The thing about that is she will know the real you and you don't have to pretend to be someone that you aren't.
If they think you are creepy then that is their problem. Tourist said he was shy. He was never shy with me and both of us have always been ourselves and that is what I like the best about our relationship. We can be the real us and we accept each other for who we are faults and all. Best way to ask a girl out starts with opening your mouth and asking being yourself. If you are funny be funny as don't you want to be with someone who would not appreciate that. If you are nerdy then be that because we need the smart ones that know all about the computers to help us out and you would appreciate her for wanting to be with you.
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Pray about finding one that can connect with you and when you know God is in the mix it is so much better actually it is the BEST Keep asking and don't stop until you find the one or are ready to stop God bless and enjoy life. Kaycie Guest Jan 31, If I really like a guy it's not going to matter how he asks me, the answer will be yes. And if I don't like him the answer will be no. You can just tell if someone likes you. If you haven't spent enough time with the person to know if they even like you, then you're moving way too fast to ask them for a date.
How do you know if she likes you? Her eyes light up and she smiles whenever your name is mentioned. Jul 7, 4, 74 Kaycie said:. But what if you're not around when your name is mentioned? Tintin Senior Member Jan 31, Jan 3, 20, 0