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Sure, you can get dates from online or from the best places in-person for introvertsbut what about beyond that? Are there any resources from Sarah on how to approach in this situation? Because if you progress when she is giving you a red light, you are being disrespectful, which is the opposite of what you want … and your straight ticket to painful rejection. But approaching on the street is different. This article shares exactly what to say when you first see a woman on the street. For more advice on how to approach and talk to women, check out our article on how to talk to a beautiful womanhow to develop strong eye contactand how to start an engaging conversation in any social setting.


But guys who take the time to learn the fundamentals on how to approach a woman no longer have that issue, and therefore have an easy time approaching women wherever they go.

And the way to get that invitation is with eye contact. When you see an attractive girl you want to approach, the first thing you want to do is make eye contact.

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If she looks up and catches your gaze, holds that eye contact and give her a relaxed smile. A good approach comes down to having the right body language. Girls notice that and are instantly turned off. Walking up to a girl without even thinking about it will not only make you look more confident, it will prevent that approach anxiety from taking over.

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You can approach women absolutely anywhere. Even if a girl is simply walking down the street, you can stop her and engage the woman in the conversation right then and there.

Of course, stopping a girl on the street is going to look different than walking up to a girl at a bar. Put yourself directly in her path, about feet in front of her. Face her and look her right in the eye.

Make it clear your looking to get her attention. Raise your hand about in foot in front of you put it around the height of your belly-button. Putting this sort of barrier between the two of you has a way of easing the tension.

In the end, stopping a cute girl on the street is no different than stopping someone if you were lost and needed directions. This can be done in a variety of ways. One of your best bets to start things off with some playful banter for detailed explanation on how to master banter, check out these episodes of Pickup Podcastas well as articles here and here.

Lots of guys think they need to dazzle a woman right away with an amazing opening line. These guys would be surprised at just how to effect this kind of authenticity can be. Attitude can trip a lot of guys up.


Guys who are approval-seeking and outcome-dependent come across as lacking confidence and that attitude can rub a girl the wrong way. Instead, you want to keep a warm, positive vibe throughout the interaction.

Having a fun, care-free attitude is going to get her to start feeling that way too. Brian M - author of posts on The Art of Charm.

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Once he realized attraction was something he could learn, Brian spent way too much of his free time studying and practicing everything he could find on the subject. Excited by the progress he's made in his own life since the program, he decided to start writing for AoC to help other guys do the same.

Best way to approach a woman A good approach comes down to having the right body language. Make it clear your looking to get her attention Raise your hand about in foot in front of you put it around the height of your belly-button. Personal Development.

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There are a lot of different methods that you can use, some of which are more effective than others.


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