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For women over 30, dating can be a minefield.
There are fewer single people generally, and yes, there will be some men your age specifically seeking out younger women. We live in a society that worships at the altar of youth — particularly when it comes to women. Indeed, because women have primarily been valued for their beauty, a concept deeply rooted in ideas of youth, women are socially devalued as they get older.
These deeply gendered value systems normalise older men seeking out younger women, because if we value men for what they acquire, and treat women as objects, of course some men are going to view women as another symbol of their status, and want the most desirable model. Everyone has a learning curve, and just like you, most people want to be bowled over by someone amazing.
‘i’m 38 and divorced, so why do men in their 20s want to date me?’
You could be that person. Younger men who have grown up around discourse around gender equality may indeed be impressed, rather than intimidated, by all you have to offer. Again, online dating has the beautiful option of filters, so you can chose only to interact with men who are open to relationships.
To avoid those who are just looking for sex, set boundaries and stick to them. But the most important barometer is your own happiness. Because while there will be bad dates and dull spells, dating is ultimately about optimism, about hope, about embracing possibilities.
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