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We are definitely an oral sex couple. Almost every time we make love we give each other oral. Sometimes I let him finish me orally before we make love, and sometimes I stop him before I finish and just ask him to penetrate me so that I can finish with him inside. It all just depends on my mood J. What I have found interesting is that on the occasions where I let him finish me orally, I become extremely tight after that orgasm. Then a couple of months ago my husband mentioned it, so I knew that he had noticed it as well.
I find it kind of odd because when I orgasm I also self lube even more, which means that I would think it would be easier for penetration. But Christian nymphos com after the orgasmic contractions are over and I have a few minutes to collect myself, we still have to take our time when he enters me for the first time.
Are most women experiencing the same thing that I am, or is this just the way my body reacts to orgasm? Ladies, what is your experience with reaching orgasm first and then moving to penetration? November 25, : Creative Sexual Techniques. Author: cumingirl. Comments: 27 Comments. Yes I just made up that acronym. You know, that raw animal like sex. Spring is just around the corner and with it will hopefully come some more playful and passionate romps! I think it will be good for the soul. I think that part of the greatness of it before was the spontaneity of it.
Anyway, if winter has put you into a rut as well, then maybe you should think about planning your own RYCOS moment with your husband too. April 1, : Creative Sexual Techniques.
Comments: 21 Comments. I know that the thoughts of allowing your husband to finish on your face may not be the most romantic thing. We are simply discussing one activity, out of hundreds of things, which a couple can share together. There could be a little truth to that. I know from personal experience that if you leave it on your face it dries out much like egg whites. But whatever firmness it seems to give you is all washed away when you shower.
To those of you who feel like this is strictly a porn activity. That being said, if you and your husband would like to experiment with this then you should feel free to do so, without guilt over whether or not this activity is done in pornographic movies.
Let me remind you all that they also kiss and fondle and have intercourse in those movies too, so should we just stop having sex with our spouse altogether? This subject has also been discussed on other marital forums such as TMB.
What has been interesting to me is to hear from the couples themselves as to why they like doing this. For me, I love the visual of seeing my wife with her mouth open, trying to catch my come in her mouth. And then I see it running down the sides of her mouth and chin. I always aim for her mouth because one time it shot up her nose on accident and she snorted and we both got to laughing so hard!
So we try to not have that happen again! So yes, there are actually couples who do this and like it. If I knew that this was an activity he used to love to do with his ex wife, then I may not want to do it either.
However, if we had a very open and trusting relationship with no issues of past partners, and we were both very playful and eager to try new things together, then I may entertain the idea of trying this once to see how it goes. Let me go ahead and warn you that if you do decide to try this with your husband, make sure you tell him to please do not aim anywhere near your eyes!
Yeah, try explaining that one! March 11, : Creative Sexual Techniques. Comments: 19 Comments. In a article, we discussed ideas on how you could seduce your husband and now we are going to talk about ways to invite your husband to do the same for you. This article was inspired in part by the following.
I have always had a hard time with my self-image. That being said, my husband caters to these purges of self-hate wonderfully, and lovingly, but inside the bedroom it is another story. It is very obvious that my hubby is attracted to me, but I am always, Christian nymphos com a doubt, the only person who initiates sex. It feels like there is a serious emotional disconnect between us during the act, and it is something that really tears at me, besides feeling unwanted because of never being propositioned. As far as it depends on you, approach your husband very warmly and openly.
You want to remember that this is a process of inviting him to something that will be better for both of you rather than persuading him to become something he is not. For some men they need and want you to be very clear about what it is you want. For other men, they want a more playful and unintentional flirtation to entice them into wanting to seduce you. Maybe staying active in sport or working out helps you with this. There are a lot of non-physical ways that we can promote this sensuality, too.
Some women find that the wonderful reading resources that are available today which discuss sexuality in a godly way are very helpful. So what are some ways that we can creatively step out and stir up our husbands beyond the ideas I already mentioned. The idea is just to get him to notice you and be thinking about you. This, along with honest conversation, will really help a husband and wife to become good lovers and to share in initiating sexual contact. The other aspect of the question in the is how to make sex more passionate and intimate on all levels. Author: cinnamonsticks.
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DH and I have had the most fun lately. Have you ever tried them? Do you have any code words or symbols that you use to let your spouse know that you are in the mood for some good lovin? With the holiday seasons upon us, our code words have been related to the holidays lately.
It works like a charm, and literally, our teenage son asked us the other day if we had decided what we were getting him for Christmas! Code words can be a very flirtatious way to interact with your spouse in other forums, too. Try it out on his home on Facebook or Myspace!!
If you think of creative catch phrases that sound harmless, it is a very good way to unexpectedly give your spouse something to think about or look forward to. Trust me, my own family members have fallen for this. My DH and I get a giggle when an aunt asks if we decided what to buy her in all our discussing! They had a unique idea with their game. A simple pin that you could wear as a secret code between you and your spouse. If you wear it during the day or out in public where your spouse can see it, he knows that you have something special planned or in mind.
December 10, : Creative Sexual Techniques. Author: spicynutmeg. Comments: 22 Comments. I got to thinking the other day of ways that wives can seduce their husbands. Of course, every man is different so what works for one man may not do so much for another, but I thought it would be good for us to share our ideas of how we draw our husbands into sexual chemistry. For many men timing is very Christian nymphos com. The other factor is that some men are living as sexual refusers so drawing them into a physical encounter with you is extremely difficult, but under normal circumstances where a husband and wife are sacrificially loving one another there are lots of fun and exciting ways to seduce your husband.
The first thing that comes to mind for me is how we dress. Again, different men like different things, but as you go through your life with your husband he is going to give you cues as to what he likes. For example, my husband has mentioned how much he like to see me wearing black. Specifically, black lingerie. So, when we are getting ready for a date night guess what color I always consider. Listen for if your husband comments on how you wear your hair or a scent you wear or a certain outfit. Does he like you in jeans? Skirts, long or short? A certain neckline?
What Christian nymphos com parts does he like and what outfits do you have that will accentuate those parts for him?