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Our favorite sitcom is definitely still Friendsand we all have our favorite characters. Of course, as we watch the lives of these six friends over 10 seasons, they meet a lot of people along the way. Every character has had their fair share of dates and relationships, and we loved to watch their romance bloom or blow up in a horrific and hilarious way. We know you have your opinions on the best relationships of the series, so we're here to settle it once and for all. Here are 5 couples that are absolutely perfect for each other, and 5 that had us yelling at our screens. Let's be honest - we love to hate this couple.
Friends couple rachel and barry were never meant to be
Cause of Split: Ross broke up with Elizabeth because he was annoyed by her immaturity. Ross and Elizabeth were incompatible from the start and never should've gone out for as long as they did. Student-teacher relationships weren't allowed at his school, and several faculty members reminded him about that to no avail. Even after Elizabeth's dad, Paul, got involved and threatened to tell the school, they continued to date in secret.
The of fake breakups they used to hide their relationship made it even more frustrating, especially since they didn't really seem to have much in common in the first place.
Their real breakup was also disappointing because Ross ultimately didn't even recognize how inappropriate their relationship was. Despite warnings from her friends and her company's dating policy, Rachel dated her assistant, Tag, while the two were working at Ralph Lauren.
Cause of Split: Rachel dumped Tag on her 30th birthday because she thought he was too young for a serious relationship. Rachel and Tag weren't as terrible of Best friend couples couple as Ross and Elizabeth, but they were still doomed from the start, and their relationship was problematic given their respective jobs. The situation was worsened by the fact that Tag wasn't even qualified for the position in the first place. Rachel only hired him as her assistant because she found him attractive.
But somehow the Ralph Lauren rules against dating a superior weren't what led to their split. Like Ross and Elizabeth, Rachel and Tag's age gap tore them apart. By the time Tag returned, hoping to win Rachel back, she was pregnant with Ross' child, so he quickly changed his mind. They probably shouldn't have dated under their initial circumstances, and outside of attraction, they didn't have much in common.
Rachel inadvertently set Ross and Emily up when her boss asked her to take his niece, Emily, out for the night while she was visiting from London. Cause of Split: After Ross said Rachel's name during their wedding, Emily ignored him for weeks before presenting him with an ultimatum: They'd stay married if Ross never saw Rachel again.
Emily was still dating a man in London when she started seeing Ross, which she kept from Best friend couples until she was safely back across the pond. Despite that, the two got engaged after six weeks because they were frustrated by their long-distance relationship. Without thinking about it much, Ross was ready to quit his job and move to a new country. Even after their disastrous wedding, Ross was willing to give up his friendship with Rachel for Emily, but he eventually thankfully realized they were never really going to work. The complete lack of trust and frequent manipulation made it clear that Ross and Emily weren't good for each other.
But they were legally allowed to date, which puts them above the two couples. Kathy was introduced as Joey's girlfriendbut then Chandler kissed her and they ended up dating instead.
Cause of Split: Chandler couldn't get over his jealousy of Kathy's costar, Nic, which led to a couple of big arguments. After their final blowup, Kathy ended up going and having sex with Nic, solidifying her breakup with Chandler. When they finally kissed after plenty of flirting, it caused a huge rift in Joey and Chandler's friendship — to the point where Joey almost moved out.
Elizabeth and ross never should've dated in the first place.
There aren't many relationships worth losing your best friend over, but Chandler and Kathy still tried to make things work. They had initial chemistry and seemed like a good couple if you ignored the Joey situation. But their witty banter couldn't make up for the tension their relationship caused. Ross and Rachel are considered the main couple as their will-they, won't-they relationship spanned across all 10 seasons.
Cause of Splits: Rachel first broke up with Ross after one day because she found the pros and cons list he made when he was deciding whether to date her or Julie. After they reconciled from that, Ross became insanely jealous of Rachel's coworker, so she suggested they take a break, which inspired Ross to sleep with another woman. His one-night stand led to their next breakup.
The next time they got back together, Rachel called it off after one day because they started arguing over whether Ross cheated on her during their "break. Finally, after they accidentally, drunkenly got married in Vegas, Ross pushed for them to stay together simply because he didn't want a third divorce.
But they ended up getting an annulment. Ross and Rachel's long history set up some sweet moments. But once they were together, their relationship was full of ugly arguments. They were attracted to each other and even seemed to be in love at times, but they never learned how to trust each other or set proper boundaries.
Eventually, the same fight tore them apart multiple times because they and fans of the show couldn't agree on the rules of "a break. Then during a "bonus night" together after their annulment, they conceived their daughter, Emma, which further complicated the boundaries of their relationship. On the series finale, they only got back together once Ross realized how much he'd miss Rachel if she moved to Paris for her dream job, so he stopped her from following her dream.
After their second breakup, they should've recognized their romantic incompatibility instead of continuing to get back together without addressing the problems that tore them apart. Gary and Phoebe met after Phoebe found his police badge and tried to use it Best friend couples get people to follow her own set of rules — including Gary, who she didn't realize was the actual cop. Cause of Split: Phoebe called things off with Gary the day after they moved in together because he shot a bird with his gun. This relationship didn't get off to the most ethical start because Gary tracked Phoebe using his police databases.
The two were certainly attracted to each other, but it seemed odd that Phoebe would date a police officer after her negative experiences with law enforcement when she was living on the streets as a teen.
They also moved in together too quickly, which seemed like another out-of-character decision for Phoebe, who was initially against the idea. These two weren't compatible beyond physical attraction and were never on the same for social issues or major relationship steps. But at least they didn't cheat on each other or pointlessly try to get back together. Richard was a family friend of the Gellers before he hired Monica to cater a party, and subsequently kicked off a romantic relationship with her. Cause of Split: Monica tearfully broke up with Richard because she wanted kids, but he already had children and even grandchildren and wasn't interested in starting that step over.
Monica and Richard had great chemistry, but their prior relationship as family friends and differing life goals kept them from working as a couple.
It's hard to overlook the fact that Richard spent literal decades knowing Monica as his friend's daughter before entering a romantic and sexual relationship with her. But the biggest reason why they weren't more compatible is that they didn't want the same things in life. No matter how much they loved each other, it wouldn't have been fair of either person to ask the other to completely give up their vision of the future, which they thankfully realized.
Friends couple phoebe and gary could never have worked
Janice and Chandler met and start dating before the start of the series. Cause of Split: Chandler broke up with Janice a few times over the course of the series, usually because she irritated him. But one time it was because Janice got back together with her ex-husband. Their final breakup came when Chandler pretended he was moving to Yemen and hopped on a plane to avoid her.
From the moment she was introduced, it was clear that Janice and Chandler were never going to work long-term. He found her annoying and avoided her constantly. It was really only on season three that he seemed to love and enjoy being around her. When they were both interested in each other, this relationship actually worked pretty well. They had chemistry and seemed to want similar things.
But Janice and Chandler weren't simultaneously into each other long enough to be a Best friend couples couple.
Rachel and tag were cute, but they were never built to last.
After years of being close friends, Rachel moved in with Joey while she was pregnant with Ross' child, and they accidentally developed crushes on each other. Cause of Split: Rachel and Joey both came to the conclusion that they were better off as friends after they realized they couldn't be intimate with each other. Although some fans, and reportedly even the actors themselves, didn't like the pairingI think Rachel and Joey were much more compatible and less frustrating to watch than Ross and Rachel. They had similar senses of humor, respected each other's jobs and goals, lived together Best friend couples, and clearly cared for each other.
They also didn't argue often, and when they did, they never went to the hurtful lengths that Rachel and Ross did. But not being able to consummate their relationship was an understandable deal-breaker that made them realize they weren't romantically compatible. David and Phoebe first met when he interrupted her music set at Central Perk, but he saved it by saying he was only telling his friend how beautiful he thought she was.
Cause of Split: After a wonderful first date, Phoebe convinced David to take his incredible research opportunity in Minsk instead of staying in New York to be with her. Phoebe and David were initially smitten with each other, and David even tried to turn down his dream job after their cute first date.
But it wasn't meant to be. After another quick one-day visit to New York, David didn't return again until he tried to interrupt Mike's proposal to Phoebe by issuing his own. But she picked Mike. From their two cute dates, Phoebe and David seemed to have the potential to be a great, compatible couple, but their timing was never right to attempt a serious relationship.
Julie originally met Ross in graduate school, and they reconnected after working on the same archaeological dig. Cause of Split: Ross dumped Julie when he found out he had a chance with Rachel. Ross and Julie had a sweet start and clearly shared similar interests. They also seemed to be on the same about what they wanted out of a relationship.
They did move a bit quickly though, especially when they talked about getting a cat together soon after they started dating. But the biggest factor that brought down their compatibility score is the fact that Ross was pretty instantly ready to break up with her for Rachel.